I had my 'dream' homebirth of our 2nd baby, spontaneuos labour at 39+4 (besides a stretch and sweep by my midwife at home 3 days prior). Unfortunately bub was 5.3kg & a shoulder dystocia, stuck for 4 mins. I had a private obs backup with scans in late pregnancy but no one predicted his size including myself, it was no ones fault & I really feel everyone who cared for us did the best they could. So my midwife gave an episiotomy when his head was out with my consent, the ambulance was called & my partner & baby had to transfer to hospital once he was born while I stayed home to get stitches. His challenging birth resulted in 4 weeks of special care then NICU from broken collarbone & swallowing issues due to neck trauma but he is ok now.